Chapter 290 No one can convince the other.
"Is there a conflict between the two? The Xu family is a famous family. When you marry, you will be the eldest daughter-in-law of the Xu family. What kind of status will you have in the future? Isn't this a big deal for you? Is it a good thing? I hope that you will marry a good family, is it wrong?"
Yun felt a little exhausted: "I think about you and want you to live well. Why do you always think that your mother is harming you? You are your mother's fault. A piece of meat that fell off, even if we haven’t lived together for the past thirteen years, my mother will not harm you!" "Mom
, marrying a rich family is not what I want. If mother really cares about me, please help me. I rejected this marriage, I just want to be an ordinary person, marry a farmer and earn a living every day." Wei Ruo replied.
"That's nonsense!" Mrs. Yun rebuked angrily, "It's okay if you have no choice. Now that you have such a great opportunity in front of you, how can you still have such useless ideas?" Wei Ruo was silent, she did not agree with
Yun Yun's opinion, but it was difficult for her to get Yun to agree with her idea.
Even though she has lived in this world for more than ten years, her inner thinking of a modern woman has not changed at all.
She still believes that her value should not be tied to marriage or a certain person.
She is her, she has to live on her own.
These ideas are difficult for Yun, who lives in this world, to understand. In her eyes, a woman's ultimate destination is to get married, to raise her husband and raise her children.
Seeing that Wei Ruo didn't say anything, Mrs. Yun persuaded her earnestly: "Ruo'er, you have been living in the countryside for more than ten years and have lacked discipline and have read less. At first, my mother was worried about your marriage after you came back, and she was also worried about your marriage. Your father has discussed that if you are not worthy of a wealthy family, then your father and I will buy you more dowry so that you can be safe for the rest of your life even if you marry a poor scholar." "But since there are better choices
, Mother naturally has plans for you. No matter from which angle you look at it, the Xu family is a perfect marriage! You are still young and don’t understand many things, but you believe that mother, as a woman, your husband is everything to you. Rely on and rely on.”
Wei Ruo still didn't speak, because it was impossible for her to tell Yun her plan. Even the wet nurse and Xiumei who had been with her were not able to accept her plan.
Seeing that Wei Ruo no longer stubbornly talked back to her, Yun said: "Mom, I don't need you to give me an answer right away. You should go back and think about this matter first." After saying that, Yun said with a tired look on her face
. He waved his hand and asked Cuiping to send Wei Ruo back.
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Things between Wei Ruo and the Xu family had already begun to happen, but Mrs. Tongzhi’s visit today still made everyone in Wangmeiyuan grit their teeth.
Nanny Li said angrily: "What do you think, Mrs. Tongzhi? What good can Wei Qingruo do? She is really blinded! She actually thinks she is a piece of jade!" Cui He hurriedly persuaded her
. I said, "Mom, please stop talking. Don't let people listen to you and then punish you to go to Zhuangzi."
After hearing that she was punished to go to Zhuangzi, Grandma Li's voice became softer, but she still said unwillingly: " This Wei Qingruo is a well-disguised person who runs around the fields all day long and has been exposed to countless vulgar men. How can she become the eldest daughter-in-law of a wealthy family? That is to say, the Xu family doesn't know about it. If they knew, how could they? Want her?"
Cui He said: "There is nothing we can do about it. Everyone in the house is helping to hide it. It is related to the reputation of the Wei family. If the eldest lady's reputation is really ruined, our second lady will not be able to get any favors. Then it will be even harder for the second young lady to marry well."
The mother and daughter murmured for a while before Wei Qingwan came back from Cangyun Garden.
Nanny Li hurriedly greeted her: "Second Miss, does Mrs. Tongzhi really want to marry our Wei family?" "
I just heard from my mother, it is true." Wei Qingwan looked calm, judging from her face There was no hint of unhappiness or melancholy on the face.
"Second young lady, aren't you angry? How can the eldest lady be worthy of the eldest son of the Xu family with her character?" asked Grandma Li.
"Whether he is worthy or not is something that the Xu family should consider. As a sister in the family, I should give my blessing." Wei Qingwan said.
Wei Qingwan's answer made Grandma Li confused. A few days ago, she felt that something was not right about their young lady. Today's attitude made her completely sure that the young lady was hiding something from them.
"Miss, are you hiding something from us?" Nanny Li asked cautiously. "It's nothing." Wei Qingwan turned away, avoiding Grandma Li's probing gaze.
Immediately afterwards, Wei Qingwan did not give Nanny Li a chance to continue questioning, and said to chase them away: "If there is nothing else, you can leave first, I want to rest."
Nanny Li and Cuihe had to exit the room with full of doubts.
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Early the next morning, Wei Ruo, who was supposed to go to Tianqin Garden, went straight to Sibaozhai.
Wei Ruo walked through Sibaozhai's shop and went to the backyard to find the nanny. The nanny was keeping accounts. When she saw Wei Ruo, she quickly put down her work.
"Miss, why are you here?" Although she was surprised, the wet nurse's eyes were full of surprise.
"The wet nurse asks me this every time I come here. Am I not welcome?" Wei Ruo said deliberately.
"It's nothing!" the wet nurse said hurriedly.
Xiumei laughed at the side and said, "How could the wet nurse not welcome the young lady? I'm just afraid that the young lady will be tired from running back and forth."
"Xiumei still understands me." The wet nurse said with a smile.
"Nanny, I came to you today to ask you something."
"Miss, please ask."
"How did you find the person I wrote to you to help me find?"
Hearing this, the wet nurse's eyes dodge. , then turned away, not daring to look directly at Wei Ruo.
Wei Ruo's face darkened: "Nanny, have you never looked for her properly?"
"No... no... I..."
"Nanny, you never lie to me." Wei Ruo stared into the wet nurse's eyes.
The nanny would do her best to help her handle the matters she had assigned to her nanny in the past, without any delay or perfunctory response.
Only this time, it has obviously been a long time and there is no news.
Seeing that she couldn't hide, the wet nurse had to say frankly: "I'm sorry, miss, I really didn't bother to inquire. I really don't want the miss to find someone to marry casually, and she is still a dying person. How could I do such a thing!" "
Wei Ruo sighed: "That's all, I'll handle this myself."
Wei Ruo decided not to embarrass the nanny. Even if the nanny really helped her find her, she might feel that she was the one who harmed her when she saw her become a widow. If you lose her, you will blame yourself for the rest of your life.
Hearing this, the nanny said sadly: "Miss, have you really thought about it?"
Wei Ruo said firmly: "Nanny, I have indeed thought about it. I know that my thoughts are shocking to many people, but I If you want to live the life you want, this is a feasible way."
(End of Chapter)